The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed (All Souls Day)
Note regarding the Gospel text:
The passage below may or may not be the
Gospel text that appears on this date in some of the printed missals such as Magnificat or others.
The Roman missal offers the option of 24 different Gospel passages of which this is one. We
apologize for any inconvenience this may cause.
Lord, I believe in you with a faith that never seeks
to test you. I trust in you, hoping to learn to accept and follow your will, even when it does not
make sense to the way that I see things. I love you, and I want to love you and those around me with
a love similar to the love you have shown to me.
Lord, help me to take seriously the
gravity of purgatory and the plight of those who end up there.
1. Even God Weeps for those who Have
Today we remember our loved ones who have passed away, just as Mary and Martha remember
their brother Lazarus in this passage from the Gospel. It is a good and holy thing to be sad when a
loved one dies. Some think that it is a lack of faith to be sad when someone dies, but in the
passage, Jesus does not rebuke Mary and Martha for being sad, but tries to console them. Later, when
he comes to the tomb himself, Jesus weeps for Lazarus (John 11:35). What a terrible thing death must
be for Jesus to weep for Lazarus even though he knows that in a few moments he will raise Lazarus
from the dead. Clearly, we don't appreciate the true tragedy of death, that God himself would weep
for a friend who is dead while knowing he has power over death.
2. You Don't Want to Go There:
We are quick to put people in heaven,
probably a little too quick. We are not doing them a favor. Many of us, even the best of us, will
not go straight to heaven, but will have to spend some time in purgatory, to be cleansed of our
attachments and desires toward sinfulness as well as for any sins for which we have not done
sufficient penance. We tend to underestimate purgatory as well, maybe because people there are
assured of getting into heaven. While it is true that people in purgatory probably experience a joy
beyond anything we will experience in this life, they also experience more intense suffering than
anything we have experienced in this life. The suffering of purgatory is similar to the suffering of
hell, and we know we don't want to experience that. Purgatory is nothing I want my loved ones
to experience if I can help it, nor do I want to go there myself, if I can help it. The great thing
is, I can help it.
3. Only the Living Hold the Keys to
What am I willing to do to avoid purgatory? Up until now, have I even thought of it as
something to be avoided? Do I realize that all the sacrifices I can make in this life to avoid
purgatory do not add up to what it will be like to suffer in purgatory? Do I ever remember that my
loved ones may be there now? Perhaps while they were in this life, they suffered greatly and I was
relieved by their deaths because now their suffering was over. Am I an out of sight, out of mind
kind of person? Do I think there is nothing more I can do for them? Or am I genuinely concerned
about the likelihood that they may be in purgatory? Do I realize that my prayers and sacrifices
represent the key to release them and that I can use it if I want to? Do I care about using it? On this day when we remember the souls in purgatory, it would be good to do something for
those who are there, especially for the ones I love the most.
Conversation with Christ:
Dear Jesus, help me
to remember those I love and
offer up sacrifices, prayers and masses for them frequently,
they may be with you as soon as possible.
Help me to make the choices I need to make in this
so I can avoid purgatory as much as possible.
Today I will make a
sacrifice for my loved ones in purgatory, remembering that for God, the size of the sacrifice does
not count as much as the love with which it is made.